Custody

    Custody of minor children is an issue that can continue long after a divorce or even in the absence of any marriage.  Children are precious and it is a parent's instinct to feel he or she is the only one who really understands what is best for his or her child.

    Ideally, the parents are able to communicate with each other and to work together.  This makes life easier for everyone involved, especially the children who appreciate the lack of tension.

    Unfortunately, things are not always ideal.  And sometimes a working relationship can unexpectedly fall apart.  Perhaps a parent has to move some distance away, forcing a change in parenting time.  Perhaps a parent remarries and the new addition causes trouble (either directly or because the parent takes issue with the new marriage).

    The worst possible thing to do for your children is to continue the anger and the tension with no hope of resolution in sight.

    As with all disputes, there are a variety of possible ways to resolve the situation.  Which one is right for your situation is something that is largely determined by the other parent's willingness to work with you. 

    Sometimes the mediation process can get you through the difficult spots without the expense of the full blown court process.  Other times, the only way to settle things is through the court.